Monday, 17 September 2018

Even the brightest stars burn out eventually

It is with an incredibly heavy heart that I have to tell you all that mum passed away at around 8pm tonight.

She went very peacefully surrounded by all her family.  As she took her last breaths we all held her, stroking her hands, head, and feet and told her we loved her.  It was sad and we did not want her to go, but at the same time we all knew that deep down it was for the best.  She is at rest, and is no longer in any pain. 

Jill's life deserves to be celebrated, so it won't surprise our reader to know that she has this planned already. We will post more details on this page as we work them out. 

In the meantime I can only thank everyone who has helped us to get through the past 6 years. Jill's battle against cancer has been a roller coaster par excellence. When she was first diagnosed she didn't expect to live very long...in the end we had another 6 absolutely wonderful years. We are all so grateful for that extra time....and we're grateful to have had so many wonderful friends and relatives to share that time with.


41 comments:

  1. Rest in peace Jill. I am so sorry for your loss, she was a wonderful lady. xx

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  2. Liz and I are thinking of you all at this incredibly sad time. The World will be a darker place without Jill's bright light shining. All our love and thoughts are with you, Liz & Ken.

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  3. Sending love and special thoughts Jill was a remarkable woman who gave joy to all she met, may she fly in peace with the angels xx Julie Duhamel (doublet)

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  4. So sorry Tom and for all of you,I only have happy memories of your mum she’s was a very funny special friend and we have all lost someone dear xxxxx

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  5. Our love and thoughts to the family at this sad time. Thank you for sharing this difficult and emotional journey with us. It was an honour and privilege to have known Jill. May she rest in peace x

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  6. So sorry to hear the sad news. She will always be with you in your heart and your thoughts.our thoughts are with you all. R.I.P. Jill ❤ xxx

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  7. Thinking of you all at this time. What a brave lady Jill was. Love to you all x

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  8. Thinking of you all at this very sad time. I feel privileged to have had Jill as a special friend. Much love to you all xxx

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  9. I’ve read every single blog ever posted, but this is my first comment. I’m so so sorry to read this, what a brave courageous fight she went through. My thoughts are with you all, and of course the brightest star shining tonight - Jill ♥️♥️♥️

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  10. May she rest in peace, and may you all find comfort in your love for one another. A good friend, who will be greatly missed by many. Sorry for you all xx

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  11. Such a lovely lady who fought with such dignity and humour. Have played netball against Jill for nearly 30 years and she was just lovely and funny and a true competitor.
    ❤️❤️❤️

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  12. Thinking of you all - sending our love. A wonderful and very special lady who will be a handful for heaven ��xx

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  13. So sorry to hear your sad news. Jill was a special person and an inspiration to us all. May she rest in peace.

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  14. My sincerest sympathy ♥️♥️♥️

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  15. Much love to you all. What a remarkable person Jill was, one who was and always will be dearly cherished. Thank you for sharing this journey. Your strength as a family is a book we should all take a leaf out of. Xxx

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  16. All out thoughts are with you and the family on this sad day.

    Debbie and jason

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  17. So sorry for your loss, she was a remarkable lady who lit up a room or sports court or hall, wherever she went, she lived her life to the fullest and fought a tremendous battle to the very end, she will be sorely missed by so many. Much love to you all at this tough time. RIP Jill ❤️❤️❤️

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  18. Jill was an immense lady with the liveliness and enthusiasm of a toddler on chocolate. She was such a positive influence and a bright sunshine and will be much missed. You, as a family, have been immensely appreciated too. The blog has been so valued as an insight into your world and a special honour to be a part of. Sending huge love and condolences, x

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  19. Grace, finley and I will look for the very brightest star. May your memories keep you warmxxx

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  20. When I arrived in Jersey for my 3 month attachment to Channel TV last summer I wondered if I would meet nice people outside of work to enrich my time there ... enter Jill Luce .. she took me to her tennis club - along to badminton and Racquet ball and passed on lots of advice and local knowledge . Her sense of humour , her kindness and her postitivity were such a massive part of making my time there so amazing . Love to you Steve and all close to such a lovely fab empowering woman ..Alison Mackenzie

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  21. Proud to have called Jill my friend, a very special lady who touched many lives and will be missed by so many. Thank you all for sharing her journey through this blog it has kept many people close to you all in our thoughts and prayers. Love to you all. She faded with the sun but will shine with the stars tonight. Rest in peace xx

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  22. Thinking of you at this incredibly difficult time. Jill was an amazing lady who will always be remembered by those who were lucky enough to know her. Throughout her illness she, and the whole family, have been an inspiration, and I know her legacy will continue through you all. Sending sincere condolences. Rest in eternal peace free from pain. ❤🌟

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  23. Thank you so much for writing your blogs over the last few days. It is immensely sad to read that Jill has left us but she remains in all our hearts. We all have such fantastic memories of a strong, energetic, fabulous lady who touched all our lives. xxxxJane

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  24. Such an amazing lady; always a great chat with Jill at the gym. God bless her and all of you. Viv xxx

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  25. Jill may have gone, but she will definitely not be forgotten. She has made such an positive impact on so many of us.

    As many have already said thank you for keeping us updated, especially over the last few days. I have also read every single post since Jill started it.

    Sending you all my condolences. May she rest in peace now. X

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  26. So sorry to hear of the passing of Jill
    She was a truly wonderful woman. My thoughts and prayers are will you all tonight. She will always be with you. I know I will feel her presence while swimming at Bel Val as this was a place very special to her x

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  27. Our thoughts are with you all at this sad time, sending lots of love, Jill was an amazing lady and always full of fun and chat whenever we saw her and an absolute pleasure to have known her. 💕Xx

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  28. God bless you Jilly Luce - an exceptional woman and beautiful human being who touched the lives of so so many people in so many ways; I am immensely proud to have called her a friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this saddest of times. N

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  29. I just went outside to look at the stars, there are so many to see out there tonight, and I saw a shooting star!!! Must've been Jill rushing around, already!!! Love to you all. Xx

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  30. Thinking of you all. She was a great great lady with an amazing energy and attitude. and there is so much love for her. As a family you must be very proud of the way you've looked after her throughout. A reflection of her love in you all. love and blessings. Lxo

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  31. All our love, what a family, jill has fitted so much in to her life and encouraged so many to run along side her, what a friend xx

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  32. We had special prayers at our council meeting for you all last night and will continue to pray for you as you cope indicdually and together with your desperately sad loss. May you continue to draw strength from your amazingly courageous Jill. Love and prayers Rev Gerryx

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  33. I am so very sad to read this. Thoughts and prayers to Steve and family.

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  34. So very sad , we were all lucky to have her in our lives xx

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  35. Dear Steve, Bex, Dan, Tom, Jack (Jessie and beanie too!)

    Jill has filled so many lives with inspiration, motivation, strength and love and our thoughts and prayers are with you today.

    Sending all our love to you all at this very sad time.

    RNLI Jersey xxxx

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  36. Sending much love to you Steve and your incredible family.
    Your blog has helped and touched the hearts of many.
    Jill was an incredible inspiration to so many of us with cancer and it was so lovely to have shared our experiences at Macmillan.
    Much love to you all x

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  37. Rest in peace Jill. A wonderful lady who will be missed. Thinking of all the family at this sad time. Xx

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  38. I am so sorry to hear that your dear mum and wife has now been taken from you. She was a lovely person who loved and cherished her family.You are all in my thoughts. X

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  39. To Dear Steve, To, Jack ,Daniel, and Becky, I am so sorry that Jill is no longer with us. What a wonderful lady and I am so pleased to have known her and had her in my life. May her memories live on for ever which they will of course. Thank you for your strength through this difficult time keeping us informed by this wonderful blog. Love and prayers God bless you all . May she rest in peace. Carl ,Fiona ,Lucy and Will xxx

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  40. I walked Jessie for a few months a couple of years ago. I still remember meeting Jill for the first time. She was so incredibly friendly and warm. She was the human equivalent of a sunflower. Always smiling, radiant and forever facing towards the sun (positivity). Lots of love and my very best wishes, Eve xxx

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